The Responsibility of Women

Women of the world, hear this!

Men are conditioned to go where they are most needed. If you want a man as a husband, make it evident to him this is the only reason you are getting to know him. If you marry him and want him to be a good husband, make it evident to him, in as many ways you can, that the role he plays as your husband is important to you and why. If you have children and want him to be a good father, never miss the opportunity to tell him how important his role is to your children and repeatedly show him how much you will trust them in his care and how much you are willing to count on him to be their provider, protector, educator and care giver. And if your children grow up, be sure to always express the respect you feel for their father by never undermining the authority and responsibility you’ve given him.

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Sacrifice

You can’t fix broken people unless you’re willing to let the repair break you equally. This is the meaning and significance of sacrifice.

Coddle

Be careful not to coddle disease to the point of accommodating it. If a depressed individual is allowed to change their environment so that their environment is suitable for their depression, their depression is likely to stay and continue to deepen. Same is true for many human maladies.

Competence

For some of us, being ignorant of our own incompetence is the one thing that staves us from debilitating depression. And unfortunately it is becoming increasingly difficult to live blissfully in that ignorance because examples of competence are so frequently flaunted before us. Stop comparing yourself to others. Look only to yourself today and vow to be better at whatever it is you did today when time comes to do it again, tomorrow.

Abandonment

Severe fear of abandonment as seen in those diagnosed with borderline personality disorder is characterized by developing resentment and anger toward anyone whom the BPD individual forms a bond with. This is because their traumas have wired them to see anyone whom they bond with as being inevitably the one that will betray them.  And yet sadly, it is the way in which this attitude will lead them to behave that will inevitably cause them to fulfill their own predictions.