Identity

Getting to know yourself is much like peeling an onion in a quest to find what lies inside. In the end what you will find out is that there is nothing left of you to identity with the self.  And that what you truly are is the space you occupy. Thinking you have some sort of identity is as foolish as a bubble thinking it’s something other than the air inside it.

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Sexes

The compulsion for sexuality in men manifests itself in the sexual act itself and any actions leading up to it.  The compulsion for sexuality in women manifests itself in her desire to draw attention from these men.  Each may do all manner of intellectual gymnastics to pretend their actions are motivated by noble reasons, but the truth is, the compulsion was there first, long before the mind came up with excuses.

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Sexuality

If your female partner has absolutely no desire to engage sexually with you it’s because she has no desire to feel loved by you.   And if your female partner has an extreme desire to engage with you sexually it’s because she desires to feel loved by you and not because she has sexual cravings.  The sexual craving for orgasm is by and large a phenomena unique to male sexuality.  And thus, while men are titillated by a woman just for being a woman, women are titillated by men just for being men.   A man wants to climax while a woman wants to see a man she admires and respects climax and for herself to be the cause of it.  This is the nature of male and female sexuality in its rawest form.

Compulsivity

We live in a time when society has exchanged virtue for compulsivity and taken such pride in this decision that they’ve denied taking responsibility for the failures they’ve brought onto themselves and turned to the government to aid them in blaming others.

Compulsive

Every compulsive act is a dishonest one. And unless you are in a state of restraint, these actions will inevitably bring you suffering in your life – either through the resentment you build in the process or the consequences they produce for you.

Compulsion

When pursuing personal growth most individuals involve themselves with symptoms and therefore go around in circles never improving themselves.  If you’d truly like to pursue personal growth you will first need to identify all of your compulsive behaviors. These may be physical and psychological.   Once you’ve identified these and are able to get them under your control, all of the other issues you’ve been trying to address in yourself will go away.

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Entanglement

Romantic love is not something you can be inside of. Just like you can’t be in hate, you can’t be in love. Love is only something you can bestow or receive.

The statement “to be in love” may actually refer to emotional entanglement or a state of infatuation. In reality, true love (in romance) is a verb and an action that can be performed and it can take on many forms.

So never say “I love you” with words because this is a lie. It’s like saying “I give to you” and then not doing anything. Those whom say it repeatedly are simply eager to hear it in return because they derive a sense of identity from the opinion of others.

Say instead “I’m going to show you love.” At least then you are making your commitment clear instead of embellishing it with meaningless ornamental language – perhaps only in the hopes of absolving yourself from any commitment or action.

Or better yet, say nothing at all and let your actions speak for themselves.

Women

The future and outcome of humanity rests largely on the quality of the women we produce.  For it is the type of woman our world raises that will largely determine the type of man that will emerge. And it is the type of woman you have that will determine the type of upbringing both girls and boys receive.  Women are, after all, most often the first nurturers and up-bringers of children.  It is alarming that the world today is engaged in worsening the quality of women by urging them to follow in the footsteps of the worst of men.  This will only lead to a terrible society and the end of civilization as we’ve known it.   I urge everyone to focus on producing a world with better quality girls and women. Only then will you have a world with better quality men. After all, men are conditioned to shape themselves according to whatever image a woman desires.  And if a woman is taught to shape herself to hate men and be independent of them, rest assured, you will only get hateful and resentful men in return and tribal instinct will once again rule the streets.

Vanity

Vanity is a noble attribute as it stems from our desire to be of value to others. But if we aren’t able (or too lazy) to find a way in which we are valuable to others, vanity will rest it’s place on our body and face. As we age, then, and find it more and more difficult to make this part of us valuable we will descend gradually into a nihilistic and easily corruptible state and a life of crime or self annihilation. Therefore it is important to find self worth in things that don’t fade. Only then will you be truly satisfied with yourself.