The Nature of Pair Bonding

Good and generous women will often pick terrible and conniving men and incredibly nice and loving men will often pick bitter and destructive women.

There is no point in denying the fact that this is a true and very real phenomena of the pair bonding experience. It’s a phenomena extensively observed by the time most have reached adulthood. And it’s termed a phenomena because each pair of opposites does not go out consciously knowing what it is they are doing.

The good woman really believes the man she is joining with is a great and righteous person. And likewise, the nice and loving man really believes the woman he has found himself with is incredible and worthy of worship. It’s only over time that the love blinders come off and each sees the person they are with more clearly.

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Many individuals are very committed to the things they blame for their problems. So much so that if someone were to remove the source of their problems they’d feel immediately threatened. This is because for many, the accusers are their excuse for being held back in life. If their problems were to be removed or resolved they’d only have themselves to blame and this is far too overwhelming for a person committed to this line of thinking. Mediocrity is too often a safe haven for those that fear taking responsibility for their failures. After all when we don’t try our best it’s often because we’re afraid others will know that our best isn’t that great after all.

Evil Genes – A warning to those that love

Beware of evil genetics when choosing a mate.   Out in the world there are narcissists, borderlines, sadists genes, and more. These have all been devised through evolution to capitalize on generous and selfless people.

A borderline female is one such creature.  It is the chemical equivalent needed to turn a generous, selfless and kind man into a sadistic, self-centered, egotistic, and narcissistic human being so that when the time is right she can point to him and proclaim her true victim-hood.

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All power centers form through fragmentation and discrimination. There can’t be an “us” unless there is a “them.”   This is why anyone whom speaks in terms of all-inclusive and universal principles will always be condemned by the mouthpieces of those in control of those power centers. However, beware of those whom divide you by seeming to advocate for universal principles. This is the true face of evil. Stay silent in the face of it and your light will certainly be consumed by it.


Most humans may only be 1% conscious which means they are 99% machination.  Your past, your trauma, your genetics, they all conspire against you to repeat all the suffering that formed them.  You are a puzzle piece that takes its shape like a gear only feeling realized when it fits. So you seek, at all times to turn the wheel of your karma and those that have fit you into theirs.   You choose what is familiar, even if it ruins you.   Raise your consciousness! It’s the only key you have for liberation.


A woman that exhibits an irrational veneration of male sexual attention and finds herself frequently having sexual intercourse with multiple men is simply a girl that never got genuine or proper attention from the male authorities in her life. All things that we lacked in our childhood or that have been taken away from us, we will devote our unconscious energies toward recreating them.


A man that exhibits an irrational veneration of women and finds himself frequently falling deeply in love with them is simply a boy that never got genuine attention or approval from the female authorities in his life. All things that we lacked in our childhood or have had taken away from us, we will devote our unconscious life trying to recreate.


When you find an easy way to work around a problem you allow the problem to persist and maybe even grow. Be forthcoming and not lazy with the problems you encounter. Be brave and not cowardly. If you fail in this, you fail creation.