Getting to know yourself is much like peeling an onion in a quest to find what lies inside. In the end what you will find out is that there is nothing left of you to identity with the self. And that what you truly are is the space you occupy. Thinking you have some sort of identity is as foolish as a bubble thinking it’s something other than the air inside it.
The compulsion for sexuality in men manifests itself in the sexual act itself and any actions leading up to it. The compulsion for sexuality in women manifests itself in her desire to draw attention from these men. Each may do all manner of intellectual gymnastics to pretend their actions are motivated by noble reasons, but the truth is, the compulsion was there first, long before the mind came up with excuses.
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If your female partner has absolutely no desire to engage sexually with you it’s because she has no desire to feel loved by you. And if your female partner has an extreme desire to engage with you sexually it’s because she desires to feel loved by you and not because she has sexual cravings. The sexual craving for orgasm is by and large a phenomena unique to male sexuality. And thus, while men are titillated by a woman just for being a woman, women are titillated by men just for being men. A man wants to climax while a woman wants to see a man she admires and respects climax and for herself to be the cause of it. This is the nature of male and female sexuality in its rawest form.
We live in a time when society has exchanged virtue for compulsivity and taken such pride in this decision that they’ve denied taking responsibility for the failures they’ve brought onto themselves and turned to the government to aid them in blaming others.
Every compulsive act is a dishonest one. And unless you are in a state of restraint, these actions will inevitably bring you suffering in your life – either through the resentment you build in the process or the consequences they produce for you.
When pursuing personal growth most individuals involve themselves with symptoms and therefore go around in circles never improving themselves. If you’d truly like to pursue personal growth you will first need to identify all of your compulsive behaviors. These may be physical and psychological. Once you’ve identified these and are able to get them under your control, all of the other issues you’ve been trying to address in yourself will go away.
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If you continue to let hateful and angry people have their way with who and what is permissible, only a hateful and angry world will be left.
The future and outcome of humanity rests largely on the quality of the women we produce. For it is the type of woman our world raises that will largely determine the type of man that will emerge. And it is the type of woman you have that will determine the type of upbringing both girls and boys receive. Women are, after all, most often the first nurturers and up-bringers of children. It is alarming that the world today is engaged in worsening the quality of women by urging them to follow in the footsteps of the worst of men. This will only lead to a terrible society and the end of civilization as we’ve known it. I urge everyone to focus on producing a world with better quality girls and women. Only then will you have a world with better quality men. After all, men are conditioned to shape themselves according to whatever image a woman desires. And if a woman is taught to shape herself to hate men and be independent of them, rest assured, you will only get hateful and resentful men in return and tribal instinct will once again rule the streets.
Only those who truly care about you will let you speak your mind freely with them. Those who don’t, are not friends, even if they are members of your own family. And therefore even these are not family, either. In both cases these individuals are merely companions or compatriots or coworkers and co-collaborators.
What you are witnessing in such instances is the conditioned behavior among these individuals to preserve the integrity of the group over the individual. But this is wisdom that has largely been perverted because one cannot care for a forest without caring to some extent for the individual creatures within it.
What is actually at work is the biological tendency to preserve sameness and shun the “other.” There are, after all, forests that have been so successful in breeding one kind of tree that all other species of plant and shrub have been rendered extinct. Tribalism and group survival is all that is at work, nothing more and nothing less.
So you see, you must make a choice about the game you want to play. Be a collectivist and remain silent about what makes you an inconvenience to those that wish to shun those different to them. Or be an individualist and speak freely about what makes you different, even if it rubs against social norms. The choice is yours.
Because we desire to see and attribute meaning to things, we too desire to make ourselves meaningful. This is the fundamental frustration of being human.