Narcissists

June 15, 2018

Narcissists haven’t the capacity to love. They only know what it is like to need approval. Therefore, any illusion of love you feel from them will be immediately dispelled moments after approval comes to them from someone else.

She will even dispose of an entire social group of friends, ignore them and pretend you never even met simply upon encountering a newer group that better serves her validation needs. To a narcissist you are no more than a step on a ladder to be stepped on and forgotten.

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Meaningable

June 11, 2018

If everything means something different to someone else, then the thing itself inherently has no true meaning other than that which is assigned to it. Without meaning, however, we would not know how to behave relative to our surroundings. In that sense, life is very meaningable and all actions follow accordingly to the form it takes in our mind.  Therefore if you would like to change your behaviors, first change the meaning you assign to your life and those around you and the behaviors will follow out of their own accord with very little effort on your part.

Escape

June 11, 2018

In order to identify what something means to someone else (or even you) all you need to look at are their behaviors. For instance, if a woman claims to love a man, but consequently has shunned all the relationships with her friends and family she knew before him, then it is likely all he is to her is an escape raft.  She may treat him like a prince in shining armor, but only as long as he keeps her away from the dragon that is her past.

Feelings

June 9, 2018

Feelings are less a tool of cognition and more a tool of survival. They may very well be truthful reactions to circumstance but bear little value or meaning for achieving long-term solutions.

Marginalized

June 5, 2018

If you build your identity around feeling marginalized by society, you will never be happy, especially when you are no longer marginalized.

Daughters

May 7, 2018

A depressed and morbid sense of self-worth for an attractive woman can lead to an addiction to approval.  In such a woman, even when married, she will present herself as readily available to men that pursue her.  Even willing to sleep with and satisfy men sexually that she cares little for, just for the small dose of validation she gets from their pleasure.   Even prostitutes value themselves more than such a woman, for they at least impose a fee for such a service.  But still, it is not the life of a prostitute that causes a beautiful woman to be depressed and battered. It is the life of a depressed and battered beautiful woman that leads her into a life of prostitution.  Remember that girls haven’t the natural ability that men have developed through natural selection to forget trauma.  Take special care, then, with how you raise your daughters.

Victim

May 5, 2018

Those whom were victims resist speaking of their stories, for they are so joyful to be free from their shackles that they have no intention of wasting time and energy ruminating over a past they are now free from.

Those, however, whom freely and with eagerness share their victim story are likely to be psychopaths wanting to capitalize on the empathy of their listener to lure them in for their own selfish gain.

Be attentive, then, for the real victims are among you, but are quietly carrying with their lives so as to not be a burden to others. Be loving to them, instead.

Lie

May 5, 2018

Those whom lie repeatedly, show that they have absolutely no love for the listener but rather wish to harness their victim’s love for themselves.

Room

May 5, 2018

Those unable to keep their rooms are bound to have unkempt lives.

Entropy

April 26, 2018

Those whom take pride in their gender but scorn those whom don’t consider them to be the same are playing a mind control game that leverages human empathy to mechanize the sexes; eliminating differences and therefore anything to be proud of. Differences are ultimately what gives the human experience entropy and as such provides the potential for emergence and action. Eliminate your differences and you will be no different than a slave.