If things flow through you, then more will flow to you.
To control someone necessarily means to be controlled by them. No different is this than when a gear controls another it is also going wherever it is going. Let go and let others be as they are. Only then will you be free to also go your own way.
It is easy to distinguish whom is on the side of the divine and whom is on the side of the devil. The devil spends much time holding secrets and telling lies while the divine tends to expose them and is in the habit of telling the truth.
Be one with the universe and you will have everything you need while needing to give up nothing. The more you sacrifice the more you are asking for things to go your way.
Psychopathic lovers want you to believe they love you despite caring little for your own needs.
Parasitic lovers just want you to love them back so they can extract resource from you.
Typical lovers just want to love you and wish you knew how much they did.
Healthy lovers want to love you as long as you are loving them back equally.
True lovers place no demands on each other because they are already everything each other needs. They consume each other fully and vanish into one another.Therefore, the true lover doesn’t really exist. He disappears into his beloved and his beloved into him.
The source of all creation was loneliness because this is all there was before all that became. Painful, frustrating, excruciating loneliness. “I WISH TO BE!” It wished to scream; if only it could wish. Likewise, it is the void in every human that leads it to action. A constant quest to fill the same void that still lies within us. You are no longer alone my friend. Be at peace.
Just as nature shows itself to be predisposed to an infinite variety of variations, the human frame can express an equal if not greater amount of spiritual, cultural and intellectual variation. In fact, were it not for cultural norms that have emerged through the pressures of time, humans would continue to diverge even further from each other, each with their own individual Gods, garments and gifts. Maybe even each with their own language. Because at the root of nature is division and multiplicity and humans are a phenomenal microcosmic expression of the universe.
Eliminate culture and social norms and behold how man will be bent in any direction his or her whims can exert on her soul, or worse yet by the whims of another. Social norms, therefore, are put in place to serve and preserve the integrity of the group, because absent these, humans would be predisposed to adopting divergent behaviors.
Therefore it is plain that chaos is the inevitable result of abject individualism while stifling and suffocating order on the opposite extreme is the result of abject totalitarianism. It is conclusive then that the most we can strive for is a system of ordered chaos that permits the freedom for each to pursue the dictates of their own conscience without the threat of being forcibly stifled by a neighbor wishing to impose their preference on others.
What you busy yourself building is what you have decided to count on. Build a relationship and you will be able to count on your partner. Build a family and you will be able to count on them for a lifetime. Build a career and that will be your vessel for as long as it lasts. What you busy yourself building when you have your strengths is what will sustain you when you have none left. Build wisely.
We are as oblivious of the sentience of our soul as a video game character is of the user that plays it. You are the avatar and as long as negative patterns continue to re-emerge in your life, you will continue to fight them until you learn what you’re supposed to in order to pass to the next level.
Cycles of pain are your own doing and cycles of fulfillment those you surrender to. If a cycle of suffering keeps manifesting itself to you then it is because you have something yet to be learned. Once it comes again be sure not to be stubborn! Pass the test, instead, and you will not need to repeat it.
Cycles of fulfillment are derived by surrendering to the cycles of nature. The more you depart from nature’s cycles the less fulfillment there will be in your life. A healthy person will sleep according to the earth’s rotation (every 1 day). A healthy woman will offer the opportunity for life according to the moon’s orbit (every 28 days). The raising of a healthy child and any long term venture must be in accordance with the sun (12 year increments). Let your will flow within the timescale of nature and you will manifest anything your heart desires. And if you continue to desire suffering, then it is because there is something you are trying to learn or overcome about yourself.